what a long and tiring toil…
May 26, 2009
So we’ve MIAed for so long…that’s cos we’ve been so busy, and tired most of the time. As most of you wud know, my son Nathan has been having nose bleed for the past months, and we’re getting increasingly worried. Eventually, we got an appt with a haematologist, and found out that mummy has Von Willebrand, and most likely Nathan has it too. That’s the most probable reason why he’s been having nose bleeds…poor boy. So sorry darling. Well, at least we found out what’s wrong with him and we know what to do when (hopefully not!!) his nose does bleed again.
Other than that, we’ve been busy with weddings, family gatherings and what not…its so tiring. What makes it worst is that, when we visits the auntie’s of marcus, I get unfriendly remarks like ‘oh, 外婆家不好，不要去外婆家，来这里啦’ ….u hear already, its so upsetting lor. It doesn’t help when Marcus didn’t hear it (as always, he never hears anything like that, so I don’t get defensed) and thus I can jus helplessly let them say whatever they want…sigh..what makes it EVEN worst is that the auntie came to our house on sunday, and my mum was here too. Gizelle was kicking up a fuss cos she’s rather stranger anxious, so when she saw my mum, she wailed and wailed. But when the auntie came, she didn’t cry immediately, and the auntie told my mum that Giz didn’t cry when we visited last weekend, and now Giz see my mum, she cries. Does this ppl ever think of how their words can hurt other ppl? Why are they so insensitive? How does those words make my mum or myself feel? I’m upset till this day, and I dun see Marcus trying to do anything at all. I am seriously upset with them and Marcus, but realli, what can I do when even my own husband don’t wan to stand up for me?
